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Finally

I have longed for someone brave enough to post this viewpoint. A case that is actually for formula-feeding, as opposed to the almost du jour articles that merely state I’m not horrible for having fed my loved one the powdery substance as long as I gave breastfeeding a good try and was instructed to supplement by my doctor. An article that criticizes the science behind the “breast is best” campaign as flawed. Perhaps breast is best, of course, but it doesn’t seem we actually know that just yet. I know some of you may find it abhorrent, while others may shrug. For me, though, it is a breath of fresh air and a welcome relief. And it made me cry a little. Bravo and thank you.

A year of firsts

As you may know, Mollybear’s first birthday was last Saturday. We hosted a party for her and were so grateful for all those able to attend and for all of those who sent their good cheer from afar. We know how lucky we are. In Bear’s honor, I’d like to take this space to celebrate a few of her firsts from the past year. Ok with you?

First day outside the womb

First day outside the womb

That was quite a day for all of us.

First Brewer game

First Brewer game

We had a bit of a hiccup on this trip (forgetting that I was no longer able to breastfeed and that Bear might want to eat something), but I think a good time was had by all.

First trip to Monticello, WI

First trip to Monticello, WI

One day, while still on leave but with wheels available to me, Bear & puppy & I piled in the car and went for a drive. I got a little turned around so we turned around in Monticello, but not before taking in the view.

First time meeting Auntie GAOOG

First time meeting Auntie GAOOG

What a treat.

First high chair experience

First high chair experience

She didn’t want us to think she was TOO grown up, so she stuck out her tongue for the camera.

First time wearing a slicker

First time wearing a slicker

And certainly first time wearing a slicker while sitting on a table.

First Christmas

First Christmas

She warmed up to Steve eventually, but all Maggie has to do is look at her and Bear is in heaven.

First Valentine's Day

First Valentine’s Day

This was a big one for me because I actually remembered she was supposed to wear red (or white or pink) to school AND I put her in a red shirt. Yes, I will pat myself on the back for this thank you very much.*

First time waking up as a 1-year old

First time waking up as a 1-year old

And it was waaaaaaaaay too early. Way. Too. Early. Way.

First time wearing a birthday hat

First time wearing a birthday hat

And she handled it with aplomb! Or, maybe I should say she tolerated it sorta.

*I know it doesn’t quite make up for the hodge-podge of an outfit she was wearing for her first picture day, but I’m trying to go easy on myself here.

NYC and back again

We all seem to have survived the trip AO & I took to NYC and back again. We returned to find Bear alive and well, smiley and normal-seeming. Equally important, my mom & Severa seem to have lived through the ordeal without aging a bit. I’m sure it was stressful, but they didn’t let me know and it certainly didn’t show. Gracie, too, seems arguably younger after the weekend. AO & I had an excellent time. I admit that landing at LGA at 5ish on Saturday night and needing to hit the hotel south of midtown and book it out to Brooklyn for a 7pm reservation had me in both a stressed and exhausted mood all the way from the Detroit airport to Queens, but once we hit the iPad-laden land of Terminal D at LaGuardia, I had a bit of a second wind. We managed to check into our hotel in the Fashion District just shy of 6 pm, freshen up, and meet our friends in the lobby just on the other side of 6:30. Ish. The seven of us piled in to two cabs to Brooklyn. Our res, which I had made, was at Flatbush Farms, not too far off of Flatbush Avenue. Now, we all know I’m no New Yorker (and the owner of the cafe on 27th Street certainly had no qualms about telling me as much), and I certainly don’t think I could do the job of a New York cabbie, but I do know where Flatbush Avenue is. While I don’t think NYC cabbie should be omniscient, I think they should probably be aware of most of the major streets in NYC of which I am aware. And one of those is Flatbush Ave. Pretty. Major. Street. This cabbie, though? Not so much. I had to guide her from the west side of Manhattan to the depths (not really) of Brooklyn using my iPhone’s map. And then I messed up because we were looking for an Avenue and not a Place, but that really doesn’t matter because we were only a couple of blocks off. And what’s a couple of blocks when you’re in the greatest city on earth? Sure, I was wearing heels, but traipsing through the side streets of Brooklyn on a dark February night when peeps are leaving their ground-level brownstones’ lights on so I can peek in at the mouldings? Yes, please! Anyway, we made it to dinner and it was delish. We headed to a bar nearby to find the bride, which was super fun until AO and I hit the wall and decided to head back to the hotel. It was a little after 11. We headed down to the nearest subway stop, knowing the line went into the City, and bought our tickets and headed to wait on the tracks. Hmm, I thought. This train says it’s headed to Coney Island. As I said, I’m no New Yorker, but that didn’t seem right. Oops. Back up to the street, cross the street, find other entrance. Coney Island again! Oops. Cross the OTHER street and bam! Because it was a Saturday night, or maybe just because, the subway stop to take us back into the City was closed. Damn. It. So, we start to walk to find the next stop. And we walk. And we walk. And we’re closing in on the stop according to AO’s phone (mine is dead). And we are right on top of the stop! Except we can’t find it…Where IS it? For God’s sake, who knows? I do know, though, that we can see the Brooklyn Bridge so I’m pretty sure we’re out of stops and need to adjust to our new reality: the third cab of the night. Fine. We get home just before midnight, I pretend I’m going to read and pretty much the next thing I know, it’s 9:15 on Sunday morning. Peaceful sigh.

Sunday was pretty much the best day ever. We left the hotel, bought some flowers and headed to Andrea & Scott’s apartment right around the corner. Of course I was really excited to see them and their apartment (love seeing apartments!), but the real draw was their 2.5 year old gem of a boy, Tennessee. Holy cow is that kid awesome. Bravo, guys. We were also blessed because Keyes and her fella, Joe, made the trip down from the upper west side to meet us for brunch. I can’t tell you how giddy all this made me. Old friends gathered round and chatting and brunching and laughing. Does it get any better? After overstaying (I couldn’t help it! The kid is so awesome and the company so fun and the apartment so welcoming), AO and I headed back to the hotel for a power nap. After this brief refresher, we decided on a walk down to Washington Square Park. We walked around the NYU buildings for a bit and quickly found a bar showing the Badger game. Hooray! We warmed up with some beers and a stunning Badger win. We trekked back to the hotel, grabbing a slice of $1 pizza on the way, and took another quick snooze (do you see the theme?) before dressing ourselves for the wedding. After pushing myself into my girdle-like contraption and getting AO to help me with my zipper, I put on more makeup than I had in months and we headed out for the brisk (in all senses of the word) walk to the wedding locale, del Posto.

What can I say? The bride outdid herself: she looked gorgeous and happy. The groom was glowing. The guests were giddy. The food was taste-a-licious (seriously good). The wine did not stop flowing, which, in my case, wasn’t necessarily a good thing. Anyway, it was really a spectacular wedding, made even better by being surrounded by good friends.

Because our flight didn’t leave until after 2 pm on Monday, we were able to have a Kristin morning! Feebrain sweetly met us at our hotel (trekking all the way from that other island, Brooklyn) and even picked out a nice cafe for us to have coffee and breakfast. Of course, that cafe didn’t really exist, but another one stood proudly in its place and, I dare say, was even better than its former occupant. I had a delicious mozzarella, tomato & pesto sandwich – yes, for breakfast – and AO and Fee had some contraption with prosciutto. Cappuccini all around! This was another one of the highlights of our trip for me: sitting around a coffee shop, chatting with some of my favorite people. Dreamy sigh.

And then we were off! Back to the hotel, into the cab, off to LGA for our direct (yay!) flight to MSN. Off the plane in MSN, AO stepped it to the economy lot, I grabbed our bag from the baggage claim, and we sped off home. We unpacked (I never unpack this quickly), tidied up and I did my best to impersonate a patient person as we waited for my mom & Severa to pull up with baby bear. FINALLY, they arrived! I yelled, “They’re here!” and ran out to meet them. I grabbed Mollybear and whisked her inside. It was about 5:15. She was sound asleep in my arms, on my chest, by 5:37. She slept until 7:30 the next morning. I guess she had a long weekend, too.

Thanks, everyone, for making our first post-Bear vacation an unqualified success!

Project Nursery

So, I did it again. I posted pics of Bear’s new(ish) room on this awesome site, Project Nursery. But people don’t love it. Which is ok. I’m ok with that. I swear I am. I feel like I can’t quite photograph it right and I’m blaming part of the lack of love on that. But I think the other part is it’s just not the most fantastic thing people have ever seen. I get that. There are some super creative people out there and I’m just happy they show me their stuff on sites like this. Thanks, creative people!

And…

cue the waterworks.